10 Things Not to Say to a Sugar mummy

It’s tough being an almost 30-something, single woman out there and I’m sure it’s tough being a friend/co-worker/relation to an almost 30-something, single woman. Just to help you out here are the top 10 things not to say to us.

  1. So, what’s new? Anything new and exciting in your life? I know this is code for “Are you dating anyone?” Just don’t ask. If I meet someone I can guarantee you I’ll be talking about him because I’ll be so excited and because it doesn’t happen very often.
  2. I recently went to a fun, charity dinner event for firefighters to raise money for a burn treatment centre. It’s such a great cause and of course that’s why I signed up… or for the possibility of meeting my future husband. And I know everyone else is thinking the same thing. So when the event is over and you ask me how it went and I say I had a great time and I’m definitely going again next year – this means that I had a great time and I’m definitely going again next year and no, I didn’t meet my future husband so don’t ask any more dumb questions.
  3. Don’t mention kids. I’m lucky enough that I’m not really sure if I want kids so I’m not in a hurry to find a guy just for the sake of procreating. I had a co-worker of mine (who is a really great person) mention something to me about her sister, who has been dating a guy for over a year and that she had better get moving because she’s not getting any younger… her sister was 32. Hello??? I’m almost 30 – did you forget that? Don’t pass judgment on us prime, single women because we’re not having babies at 25. Then she proceeds to tell me she’s so happy she had kids when she was young so she can keep up with them and be a young mom. Helloo again??? Sometimes we don’t have a choice in the matter. I don’t want to be 40 if I decide to have kids but maybe that will be the age when I have the opportunity to have them.
  4. You’ll find “the one” when you’re not looking. I’M ALWAYS LOOKING! I really hate that line.
  5. Be happy with what you do have. This is true. I have my own place, a job, a car – I really am thankful. BUT I WANT MORE! There’s nothing like that feeling of being in love.
  6. When you find the right person you’ll know. What do you mean I’ll know? Does a siren go off? Does someone come to me in a dream telling me that he’s the one? Do I get a letter in the mail saying I met my soul-mate? Throw me a bone people!
  7. Stay busy and have a life of your own. I’m almost 30. I don’t go to the bar, I rarely go to pubs and I hang out with my married friends… yeah, I’m real busy.
  8. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen. That’s a load of squash if I ever heard a load of squash. Some people don’t get married or meet their “soul-mate.” How come some people are lucky enough to find true love and some aren’t?
  9. Put yourself out there. I have really done this. I consider myself a quieter person but I really do believe in taking chances and taking a risk especially because it makes my dull life more exciting. For example, I gave gym guy my number. Still waiting on that phone call. Part of the reason I did this is because I would love for someone to do that to me and I wanted to find out if he was interested. If not, I would know and then I could move on to my next poor, helpless victim.
  10. You don’t need a man to complete you. Really? I betcha a single, feminist came up with this. There is a feeling you get from being with a man you’re attracted to that you just don’t get when you’re hanging with your girlfriends. It’s irreplaceable and I don’t want to go through life without it. I think it has to do with chemistry or hormones… really, it’s beyond our control and in our chemical make-up.

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Five ways to meet the toyboy (or cougar) of your dreams that you haven’t thought about

Love is in the air (and hopefully air that’s not full of carbon emissions!) With climate change becoming more mainstream, “eco networking” is a great way to meet people – whether for business or for finding the man or woman of your dreams. Here are five great places and forums that you may not have considered.

1. Visit a Farmers Market

There is no better way to get to know community than heading to your local farmers’ market. Farmers and shoppers are always keen to share their thoughts and ideas on organic food, cooking and healthy living. Farmers markets serve a vital link between country and city living and is the perfect meeting ground for these disparate worlds.

2. Take a gardening or permaculture course

In these financially tough times, people are spending less time traveling and shopping and putting more effort into family and friends. It also means people are picking up new hobbies and pastimes, such as gardening and permaculture. Permaculture is a great way to get in touch with the environment and understand how to make your lifestyle more holistic and earth friendly. (And what better first impression can you make than with hands coated with rich fertile soil.)

3. Volunteer

Plant a tree, clean a park, raise awareness and meet great people. Community groups are full of enthusiastic, knowledgeable and kind hearted peopled just like yourself! You can volunteer at a number of levels, even if sitting in front of the computer is your thing. (Statistical fact – 90 percent of people who volunteer live longer and have better sex than those who don’t. Actually, we just made that up, but we dare someone to tell us it’s not true!)

4. Green dating goes online

Like everyone else, green dating moves online. Today’s mainstream dating sites, like RSVP have Green Communities and forums. There are also a number of great environmental meetup groups, such as GreenUps, which are specifically for greenies keen to network across the space.

5. Take public transport

Sharing in the public transport experience is a communal journey. Commuters meet and greet each other every morning and relish in the fact that they’re universally opting to go greener. (Or they get in a good whinge about how the bus is always late and traffic always slow, but either way, great conversational opener). Cyclers are also a very tight knit group, if you don’t mind a little bit of perspiration.

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Disadvantages of older women Looking To Date toyboys

It is now acceptable to see toyboys dating a sugar mummy these days. The same cannot be said back in the day when dating someone older or younger than you was considered a taboo and was totally unacceptable. Being a sugar mummy to a younger man isn’t such a controversial thing anymore nowadays. Believe it or not, some relationships just work out regardless of age. Having a good and working relationship has nothing to do with age and it should stay that way. Some singles have their own preferences when it comes to age when dating but if you think about it, age is just a minor factor when it comes to making a relationship work. What’s important is the connection and compatibility of both parties. There are even relationships that don’t go really well even if the couple has the same age. This is proof that age has nothing to do with compatibility.

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However, there are also times where it becomes too disadvantageous to certain party. In cases like these, the couple may stop their relationship if they don’t think they can handle these disadvantages any longer. The disadvantages of toyboys when dating older women are quite obvious but how about the disadvantages of the older women who date toyboys? To answer that question, I have put together some of the most common disadvantages of older women who date toyboys:

1. In most cases, toyboys only date older women because of the money, asses, power and financial security that they can offer. When in some point the older women who date younger men lose these things, the toyboys will desert them. This is true in cases wherein there is no physical or psychological attraction between both parties and the only thing that keeps them together is money. Of course, this won’t always be the case but this disadvantage is still worth mentioning. If you think you are in this situation, you might want to reconsider your relationship with your younger partner.
2. Obviously, older women no longer have the same energy level as when they were younger so they might not be able to keep up with the younger man’s activities. In some cases, toyboys might lose interest in them and start looking for younger women just because of this. Toyboys want excitement and adventure and older women can still give them these despite of their difference in energy level.
3. Despite the fact that toyboys have more energy than older women, they might be lacking in sexual experience. To put it simply, older women know how to please men more than toyboys do women. As these things come with experience, older women definitely have the advantage.
4. Lastly, older women who date toyboys will fail to meet a mature, wise, secure and appreciative older man. We can’t deny the fact that older women would suit an older man better as a mate compared to toyboys. In addition to this, both parties will go through the aging process together and there will be no fear of being left alone or dying early.

I really don’t have anything against older women who date toyboys. I’m just citing the disadvantages of doing so. If you think you will be able to handle these then I am certainly not going to stop you as there are lots of relationships like these that worked out pretty well.

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Dating Personals: How to Find a Sugar Mummy Using Them

Dating personals are paid or free personal ads placed by a person on newspapers, magazines or Internet in order to find a suitable date and can be excellent ways to find a sugar mummy in Kenya. Here are a few tips to find a sugar mummy through dating personals.

Find a good service

Fist of all find a good dating personal service. It can be the personal ad column of a popular magazine or a dating website. If you are not willing to pay for the service, there are many nice free online dating websites that you can use. With a dating website, you will need to create a profile on which you will specify your likes, dislikes, future plans and so on and so forth. You can consult a good friend of yours about which service to opt for.

Create a nice profile

The ad that you are going to place or the profile you will set up is the key to attract the right kind of women. Therefore spend a considerable amount of time on it. Your ad/profile should succinctly explain what kind of a person you are and what kind of a person you think will be suitable to be your partner. Also, you need to be clear about the kind of relationship you are looking for.

Be active

It is not enough just to post ads or profiles on dating personals and then expect to be inundated by messages from like-minded women willing to go out with you. You have to be active and reach out to other people. If you are taking help of newspaper or magazine ads, be sure to go through the entire dating personal section to find out if there are ads that reflect a similar mentality as yours or at least one that is compatible with yours.

If yes, you should make the effort and contact the woman. The same is true about online dating personals. You have to visit the dating website daily and browse the profiles of other people looking to hook up. Until and unless you are actively seeking a sugar mummy, it will be really difficult for you to find one.

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